Rebounds
A rebound relationship is when you want to skip the pain of the previous relationship and feel good right away. It's just a "quick fix" to a breakup situation that actually requires some emotional pain and soul searching
Many claim the only way to get over your ex is with another person hence the term "rebound" exists in the dating vocabulary. I'm sure all of us had been there before spending weeks, months and even years agonizing over my exes. Calling them all the time, showing up at their houses, all the stuff that we're not supposed to do. We were just sad and miserable at the time.
The right remedy according to my mates?The answers are GETTING REBOUND RELATIONSHIPS AND HAVING REBOUND SEX!The question is can it really cure a broken heart?I took the liberty to do a small research by reading through a lot of articles to understand how this concept works and how effective it can be. We all live in denial. When it comes to rebound sex, it's definitely not about the sex. It never is. It is more about self-discovery. It is about our confidence, our ego and our self esteem. By doing this, we hope to restore our hopes that we still have it in us. Hopes of restoring our confidence that we still have a desirable nice, long and vigorous ego(applies to men) or to have a nice, long, vigorous ego stroking for her(applies to women). Basically we're looking for rebound sex because we want to prove that we're still desirable to the opposite sex. If we were the ones who dumped out exes, we just want to be sure that we did the right thing by leaving. On the other hand, if we were the ones who got dumped, we just want to believe that our exes were the ones with issues. We just want to feel in control again after losing it by the situation that we were put through.
Rebound sex might not be that straight forward and simple. There's a catch to it. If things were not made clear on the part where no strings were attached then you might risk having the other party having feelings for you or the worse case scenario; you might have feelings for her. I have this mate who knows it all too well. You might get a classic type-A psycho stalker woman who just won't leave you alone. Now you've just doubled your troubles.
Whatever it is, I'm still a skeptic when it comes to rebounds regardless of relationships or sex. Firstly I just feel that dragging an innocent party into my bummer of a relationship is just not fair or healthy, especially when it comes to rebound relationships. Secondly, I bet it only felt good in the moment and didn't take me any further away from the pain I'm in and probably make things worse for all involved. What I should be doing is to get out of her world and go find someone real to love. Any relationship that's designed solely to elicit a reaction from someone else is not only false but a major discredit to anyone who's a part of it. I know it for a fact that when I truly move on, I won't care what she thinks. And for the record, the best revenge isn't messing up her life. It's getting on with mine and living it to the fullest
Many claim the only way to get over your ex is with another person hence the term "rebound" exists in the dating vocabulary. I'm sure all of us had been there before spending weeks, months and even years agonizing over my exes. Calling them all the time, showing up at their houses, all the stuff that we're not supposed to do. We were just sad and miserable at the time.
The right remedy according to my mates?The answers are GETTING REBOUND RELATIONSHIPS AND HAVING REBOUND SEX!The question is can it really cure a broken heart?I took the liberty to do a small research by reading through a lot of articles to understand how this concept works and how effective it can be. We all live in denial. When it comes to rebound sex, it's definitely not about the sex. It never is. It is more about self-discovery. It is about our confidence, our ego and our self esteem. By doing this, we hope to restore our hopes that we still have it in us. Hopes of restoring our confidence that we still have a desirable nice, long and vigorous ego(applies to men) or to have a nice, long, vigorous ego stroking for her(applies to women). Basically we're looking for rebound sex because we want to prove that we're still desirable to the opposite sex. If we were the ones who dumped out exes, we just want to be sure that we did the right thing by leaving. On the other hand, if we were the ones who got dumped, we just want to believe that our exes were the ones with issues. We just want to feel in control again after losing it by the situation that we were put through.
Rebound sex might not be that straight forward and simple. There's a catch to it. If things were not made clear on the part where no strings were attached then you might risk having the other party having feelings for you or the worse case scenario; you might have feelings for her. I have this mate who knows it all too well. You might get a classic type-A psycho stalker woman who just won't leave you alone. Now you've just doubled your troubles.
Whatever it is, I'm still a skeptic when it comes to rebounds regardless of relationships or sex. Firstly I just feel that dragging an innocent party into my bummer of a relationship is just not fair or healthy, especially when it comes to rebound relationships. Secondly, I bet it only felt good in the moment and didn't take me any further away from the pain I'm in and probably make things worse for all involved. What I should be doing is to get out of her world and go find someone real to love. Any relationship that's designed solely to elicit a reaction from someone else is not only false but a major discredit to anyone who's a part of it. I know it for a fact that when I truly move on, I won't care what she thinks. And for the record, the best revenge isn't messing up her life. It's getting on with mine and living it to the fullest
depression hits supa_jock at 7:37 AM
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somebody take this guy out hunting pls.
who says you need to have a relationship? who says you need to have sex. what innocent party? are you crazee!
Thats like saying "dowan, i dowan to play football... the ball hit my face how!? HOW?!" and everyone assures you the ball won't hit your face then you say "I scared i kick the ball into someones face" WOI! stop making crap excuses. and start realizing that youre an adult already and bound by adult dating rules and i think you give the majority of the availables out there too little credit for what they know.
and i'm sure youre bright enough to practice good judgement regarding stalkers and innocents, if you dont i suggest u start! otherwise u might just marry one!
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wwwooaahh cool it dude. It seems like you sound more drama than I am. ehhehehehe..wwweelll the message I'm trying to lobby across is that getting over a person using another person just doesn't feel right. I'm speaking from experience here. Let's say I when out there and gotten another girl as a replacement for emotional attachment only to realise that she was a mistake later on. Wouldn't that be playing with her feelings?Wouldn't that make her hate me for what I did?
NOTE: Strictly based on rebound relationships with emotional attachments ONLY. As for rebound sex, I have nothing against it as long as two mature adults agrees that it is stictly based on sex with no strings attached.
Deviant: Go laugh at something else. I gave you something to laugh about already...toceng for life!ahhaahhahha
why need rebound sex when you can fuckin toceng? WOI!!!
aiya, mau main ka? no need to talk so much with the rebound wan. start grabbing her, if no objection, go tongkat ali gold, go for gold...better still, ask her to toceng for you, hahahaha. the moment you 'reach the top', you may thank your lucky stars u didnt do her...
Ben: So much trouble just to get a girl to toceng for you?If that's teh case, I rather get those inflatable sex dolls..ahahahha
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